I'm all about having fun and being adventurous. Body modification is a big part of my life but I have plenty of "normal" friends too, haha! I'm a pretty big nerd for art, video games, cartoons, etc. and a hopeless romantic at heart.
I have some days where I want slow, romantic sex... but other days I enjoy choking, slapping, cutting, name calling, just a lot of roughness. If it doesn't hurt you're doing it wrong. ;P